Monday, January 27, 2014

Be A Supporter!

    Okay Belles, I just need to talk for a few minutes. I've had some things happen in my life the past few months/years, big changes. Some good, some not so good. But no matter what I've felt like I've had a good support system through my boyfriend, family, & friends. UNTIL, I had someone who I felt I was very close to, would even consider a best friend, tell me "Oh, you'll never be able to do that" to something that I had told them was a goal of mine. This goal being something that I could accomplish, with a good support system behind me of course. It may just be me, but when I tell someone in confidence a goal, or a dream of mine, I expect them to support me, as I would & do support them on their goals/dreams. When I get told by someone (who I feel like should have complete faith in me) that I'll never amount to what I want to be, it kinda rains on my parade, and makes my self confidence go down. I don't mean to rant, but in all honesty, my feelings are crushed. I've never been one to tell someone they will never be able to accomplish their goals/dreams in life. I encourage them to go forward and pursue it, and be the crying shoulder, the support system when they face an obstacle. 

    I've decided for myself, I will not let others bring me down. I will accomplish what I set my mind to. No matter how hard or how far away my goals/dreams may be. I WILL PUSH FORWARD, past the negativity.

You never know how hard it can be on someone when you're throwing negativity on them, until you've been there yourself.

     The reason for me writing this post is, I really want you to think of your goals/dreams. What are they? How can you make them come into reach? & How far are you going to have to push yourself, whether it be mentally or physically, to get there? 

    No matter what your answers are to those questions, just know that no matter where you are, or who you are, I'm ALWAYS supporting YOU. Even if I don't know you, I'm supporting. 


Until next time,


  1. You can always do whatever you want to because you are the strongest person I know. I love you.

  2. I personally have experienced something similar. When I started our blog, I was extremely excited and told my whole family about it. Thinking that they would all support me by reading it, and motivate me to do well. But they did the total opposite. I found out that they actually "talk crap" about it behind my back because they don't understand why I think I should be a bblogger. But I don't care, I love it. And I refuse to stop. I'm gonna be the best blogger I can. Too bad my own flesh and blood don't want to be supportive. :(
    P.S Just found u and followed u on gcc and bloglovin! :)

    1. I'm sorry you had to go through so much negativity! I'm glad you girls have your blog, I love reading your post & watching your videos. You'll always have your blogger family here to support you, don't forget that! :) xoxo!

  3. Keep strong and keep going! No matter what anyone says!!

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